Stop the Disrespect: 5 Calm, Consistent Systems That Actually Work Let’s be honest: student behavior feels louder lately. Kids ignore directions. They talk back. They pretend they didn’t hear you. And suddenly, half your energy is going toward managing behavior instead of teaching — again. Here’s the thing I’ve learned the hard way: behavior problems don’t usually mean kids are “out of control.” They mean the system isn’t clear yet. And the good news? Systems can be fixed. You don’t need new rewards, louder consequences, or endless reminders. You need calm, consistent routines that run whether you’re tired or not.  1. Fewer Rules. Clearer Expectations . When classrooms struggle, it’s often because expectations are fuzzy. Too many rules. Too many exceptions. Too much talking. Instead: Stick to 3–5 clear, simple rules Say them the same way, every day Teach them like you teach content If students don’t know exactly what “respectful” looks like in your room, they’ll guess — and their g...